Saving Your Marriage First Aid – Heal Yourself

Infidelity is something that can ruin your marriage and even yourself if you will not deal with it accordingly. Maybe the very first thing that comes into your mind after you discover that your spouse is having an affair is to shut down your own world believing it will end all those piercing pains. But that does not the way it should be, first you need to heal yourself.

You must be strong enough to deal with your partner’s infidelity. I know underneath your hurts and anger you also wanted to be one of these “strong people” and be brave enough just to show to your cheating spouse that you are better off without him. But underneath that unyielding pains and anger, you know to yourself that you feel crushed and feel like a doormat tromped on by your spouse as he walked out on you. Yes, it is normal to feel broken and defeated but don’t withdraw to life. There are boundless possibilities and wonderful things ahead of you. This is something I guarantee you, in time you will feel normal again, and you will recover from this traumatic experience and will be stronger. I’ve been there; I know what it feels like being betrayed by your very own partner. It’s not yet end of the world, life is wonderful. You need to be strong and live your life no matter what to save yourself and your marriage from miseries.

You just have two choices, walk away from life and stay miserable or deal with infidelity and bring back your happy life. Remember you are not alone in this battle. There are millions of women out there who have the same problems like you, who have been victims of infidelity. Step out from your miseries and face this ordeal like a mature adult. What you really need to do right now is to help yourself, look inside heart and face your emotional turmoil – HEAL your broken self-esteem, bring back your happy life and save your marriage.

To your ongoing healing here are my recommended resources:

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No one has ever known her
     As much as he had
No one can ever make her happy and surprised
     As much as he was with him

No one can ever understand his past
     As much as she easily did
No one can ever soothe his pain
     As knowingly and unknowingly as she did

Her masculine side and quirks
     Matched and mirrored his feminine part and quirks
Complemented and made each half of a whole
     Her directness was his indirectness
And his directness was her indirectness

Am I really YOU and are You, I?
     If we were; then
I am You and You are I

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Weekend Tag

We got this tag from Allena and we thought you would enjoy answering it too. Our's is no longer a one word tag. lol. Some of our replies are 2-3 words..eheh :)

Have fun!!!

1. Where is your cell phone? Khasmal: bag Sachi:Pouch
2. Your hair? Khasmal: Black Sachi:Black/Light Brown?
3. Your mother? Khasmal: Sage Sachi: Wonderful
4. Your father? Khasmal: Versatile Sachi: Unique
5. Your favorite food? Khasmal: Pasta Sachi: Veggies
6. Your dream last night? Khasmal: Nightmare! (Waaahhh!!!!) Sachi: Can't remember
7. Your favorite drink? Khasmal: C2 Lemon Sachi: tea
8. Your dream/goal? Khasmal: Writer Sachi: peaceful life
9. What room you are in?Khasmal: Food Court Sachi: food court sm
10. Your hobby? Khasmal: Reading Sachi: reading
11. Your fear? Khasmal: Death Sachi: losing someone
12. Where do you want to be in 6 years? Khasmal: Own beloved home/ Tagaytay Sachi:Baguio
13. Where were you last night? Khasmal: Apartment Sachi: @ my sister's house
14. Something that you aren’t? Khasmal: Extrovert Sachi: ...like them
15. Muffins? Khasmal: Yummy! Sachi: Hmmmn!
16. Wish list item? Khasmal: dream house Sachi: own studio
17. Where you grew up? Khasmal: San Fdo., La Union Sachi: tarlac/baguio/batangas?
18. Last thing you did? Khasmal: Walked Sachi: surfed the net
19. What are you wearing? Khasmal: jeans, 3 layered blouse Sachi: shorts, sleeveless & a jacket
20. Your TV? Khasmal: Nah S: none
21. Your pets? Khasmal: None Sachi: virtual pet (dream pet: jack russel)
22. Friends? Khasmal: Priceless and my Family! Sachi: my treasures
23. Your life? Khasmal: in "transition" Sachi: on a journey
24. Your mood? Khasmal: pre-meditative Sachi: worried
25. Missing someone? Khasmal: Yes! Sachi: definitely yes!!!
26. Car? Khasmal: :someday .... Sachi: yes please!someday :)
27. Something you’re not wearing? Khasmal: mascara Sachi: thong
28. Your favorite store? Khasmal: SM Clark - Hypermart Sachi: NBS
29. Your favorite color? Khasmal: browns, pinks, all except green Sachi: blue
30. When is the last time you laughed? Khasmal: a few minutes ago Sachi: a while ago
31. Last time you cried? Khasmal: a week ago Sachi:last night
32. Who will resend this? Khasmal: Anyone Sachi: you/anyone
33. One place that I go to over and over? Khasmal: Home Sachi: home
34. One person who emails me regularly? Khasmal: friends Sachi: my bff's mom
35. My favorite place to eat? Khasmal: Chowking Sachi: chowking

Feel free to grab this tag! It's fun!

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